Allowing Success: A Subconscious Approach

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Most people don’t actually want millions in the bank.

They want the feeling that—no matter what happens—they have choice. Freedom. Security. That’s what I’ve been integrating into my approach. A way of allowing success rather than chasing it. And here’s what most people miss: success isn’t just a mindset shift. It’s a body shift.

For lasting change, the subconscious mind and nervous system must perceive success as safe, normal, and inevitable. Without this, no affirmation, vision board, or mindset strategy will produce significant effects.

This is why so many people stay stuck, even when they deeply, desperately want change. If your subconscious and nervous systems don’t register success as safe, no affirmation will change your reality. This is why people stay stuck, even when they deeply want change. They look for productivity apps, hacks and how to optimize their minds and bodies for greater success.

This is short-term thinking that leads to serious burnout. A recent Gallup Poll stated that 76% of American workers will feel burned out at some point in their careers. And then they’ll spend that hard-earned equity in trying to buy back their health.

It’s a vicious cycle, but you can stop it by turning inward to your subconscious programming.

Step 1: Trust It’s Already Done (Reprogramming the Subconscious)

Your subconscious doesn’t respond to words—it responds to what feels true. And for most people, what feels true is what’s familiar, not what’s possible.

🔹 Example: If your subconscious believes money is unpredictable and stressful, no amount of “I am wealthy” affirmations will override that. Your body will still brace for instability. Instead, your work is to slowly introduce stability—through experiences, not just thoughts.

🔹 Somatic Practice:

• Close your eyes. Imagine yourself financially secure—not in the future, but now.

• What does your body do? Does it relax? Or tense up?

• Breathe into any resistance. Let the experience of security settle in, even for a few seconds. This is how you begin to shift what feels true.

Step 2: Move Like It’s Already Happening (The Power of Consciousness)

Your conscious mind sets the direction, but your body determines whether you follow through. If success feels unsafe—even on a subconscious level—you will self-sabotage.

🔹 Example: The Psychology of Money highlights that most people don’t actually want extreme wealth—they want flexibility and security. This is why so many entrepreneurs burn out chasing a number when what they truly want is freedom.

If your actions are driven by scarcity, you will reinforce scarcity. If they are driven by sufficiency, you will build sufficiency.

🔹 Somatic Practice:

• Stand up. Root your feet into the ground.

• Say: I can trust my path. Notice how your body responds.

• If there’s tightness, breathe into it. If there’s ease, anchor it in.

This isn’t about becoming something new. It’s about recognizing what has always been yours.

Step 3: Detach From the Timeline (The Role of the Nervous System)

The greatest obstacle to success isn’t failure—it’s nervous system dysregulation. If your body is in a constant state of urgency, waiting for external proof before you feel safe, you will stay in a cycle of striving and second-guessing.

🔹 Example: If you’ve ever checked your bank account obsessively, waiting for it to reflect abundance before you feel abundant, you know this loop. The state of lack reinforces itself—not because money isn’t coming, but because your body is locked in survival mode.

🔹 Somatic Practice:

• Shake out your hands, your shoulders.

• Take a deep, slow exhale.

• Repeat: Everything is aligning in perfect timing. I trust my own pace.

Your body is always listening. When you move with trust, you train it to expect trust. And when trust becomes your normal state, success follows—not as something you chase, but as something that meets you where you already are.

Final Thought:

Success isn’t something you think your way into. It’s something you step into when your subconscious believes it, your consciousness directs it, and your body allows it.

🔹 Mantra: I do not chase. I embody. I move in alignment, trusting that what is meant for me is already mine.

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