How I Changed My Life For The Better

You’ve spent years doing what you thought you should.

Building, achieving, persevering.

But something still feels off.

Because having a breakthrough isn’t about doing more.

It’s about seeing more.

The subconscious patterns. The inherited fears. The places where protection became hesitation, where old wounds became lifelong identities, where past experiences distorted your sense of what was possible.

You tell yourself you’re being patient. Smart. Careful.

But years pass, and you’re still waiting.

I Know This Pattern Because I Lived It.

For years, I convinced myself that if I just became the right version of myself—

If I had the right career, the right relationships, the right life—

Then I would finally feel whole.

Instead, I felt like a fraud in my own life.

No matter how much I achieved, I never felt safe enough to relax into it.

Then everything collapsed.

A career setback shook me to my core. I lost the identity I had built my life around.

And I was left with one terrifying question:

“If I’m not this… then who am I?”

At first, I thought I had failed.

But in the months that followed, I realized:

I wasn’t broken—I was programmed.

Everything I thought was evidence of my unworthiness, my doubts, my self-sabotage—

It wasn’t proof of failure.

It was proof of the invisible patterns running my life.

Having A Breakthrough Isn’t What You Think It Is.

The real transformation— the one that came two years later— wasn’t about changing myself.

It was about unraveling everything that wasn’t me.

It was about seeing the illusion—the places where fear became fact, where hesitation became wisdom, where I had mistaken old survival patterns for truth.

It was about finally realizing:

🔹 I was never unworthy. I was taught to feel unworthy.

🔹 I was never incapable. I was conditioned to doubt myself.

🔹 I was never stuck. I was just following an outdated map.

And once I saw that—everything changed.

Because healing didn’t just happen in my mind. It had to reach my body first.

The irony is, Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) found me because I wanted to fix my hair.

It sounds surface-level — but the breakage was severe, and nothing helped.

I suspected there might be something deeper—some subconscious thread—but I didn’t have language for it yet.

I’d read Marisa’s book after thinking my life had fallen apart.. Something about her philosophy helped me say yes.

I gently waded into the subconscious realm and found the courage to book a session. It changed everything.

What I thought was just a problem about hair turned out to be deep anguish and grief. Prolonged tension that kept my body deeply armored (frozen). An old story that was still running in my system, long after the threat was gone.

I hadn’t known my body was still carrying what my mind had tried to beat into submission before forgetting.

But it was.

And RTT gave me a key I didn’t even know I’d been reaching for.

Not just insight.

Relief.

Reconnection.

A remembering of my soul.

And so I changed the trajectory of my life and never looked back.

This modality—a centerpiece of Ingram’s Path—helped me unlock sovereignty.

Now, I Help Others Do the Same.

Because having a breakthrough isn’t about pushing through resistance.

It’s about understanding what that resistance is protecting.

It’s not about fixing yourself.

It’s about releasing everything that was never really you to begin with.

This is the work of transformation.

Not fixing—unraveling.

Not escaping—reinterpreting.

If you’re done waiting—if you’re ready to see what’s really been holding you back—

I invite you to step into this work with me.

Because the life you want isn’t waiting for you.

It’s already here.

You don’t have to prove yourself to claim it.

You just have to arrive.