Expanding Your Mind’s Capacity for More

You don’t have a money problem, babe.

You have a capacity problem.

If I asked you point blank: “How do you feel as money/currency is exchanged and spent?

What would you say?

Are you worried/terrified that what flows out won’t flow back in with the speed, frequency, or amount that you’d prefer?

Is there any part of you that’s resentful about that?

Or, are you more like I used to be—believing money, more than anything, will make your life easier and more desirable?

What if I asked you, “How much pleasure can you stand? How much ease?”

What would you say?

Would any part of you shrink or become uncomfortable?

If so, you’ve got work to do.

(And that’s Okay. You are not alone in thinking or feeling like this. Most people do.)

Our lives are often dominated by our unconscious fantasies, of an idealized life— like the marriage-perfect-partner dream, the money dream, the power dream, and the enlightenment dream.

They all haunt our inner lives. And none of them are real or possible. There is no idealized life.

When we try to attain it, we unconsciously get caught up in a drama triangle.

The question we often don’t want to look at is what happens to us when we make big plans, and they go awry, or never show up?

What does it say about us as people if we fail to make our fantasies an ideal reality?

Fantasy is only dangerous when it becomes a substitute for fully engaging with the now.

And here’s the paradox—

We can anticipate good things coming toward us, without enslaving ourselves to how it’s supposed to happen.

We can look forward to possibilities without needing them to be perfect. But first, we need to let go of our expectations and judgments.

Where Your Subconscious Comes In—

If your subconscious believes money equals drama— and maybe stress, responsibility, or risk— it will find ingenious or subtle ways to push it away—no matter how hard you work.

Because here’s the thing:

Your nervous system isn’t wired for abundance—it’s wired for keeping you inside your body (instead of going into fight/flight/freeze/fawn/flop).

And making a type of currency exchange, the hero or villain in your survival story is not going to endear your nervous system response to the inner workings of your subconscious.

The Story Showing Up—

If struggle, ‘just enough,’ or feast-or-famine cycles are your norm, your subconscious will fight against having more.

Not because you don’t deserve it, but because your system hasn’t learned how to hold it yet, free from the endless drama of your belief system.

This is where hypnosis (specifically RTT) and shadow work shine, and where I come in.

I help you uncover your deepest shadows around your worth, while also helping you recode and repair your mindset and nervous system around your worth.

If the only roads you’ve traveled with money have tolls, detours, or breakdowns, your subconscious will keep putting you on those same roads—even if you’ve got the map for somewhere better.

The work isn’t just ‘wanting more’—it’s showing your system that wealth can arrive without cost to your peace, health, or freedom.

How I Help Transform This Pattern—

At Ingram’s Path, I don’t just help you shift your beliefs about money—I help you expand your capacity to hold it without fear, guilt, or sabotage.

You’ll leave your invisible money drama triangle for good, so you can make decisions from freedom, invest without panic, and enjoy what you’ve earned.

Through deep subconscious reprogramming + hypnotherapy,+ NLP + nervous system regulation we’ll:

✔️ Break generational scarcity loops so you stop repeating patterns that aren’t even yours.

✔️ Rewire your money identity through deep shadow work so abundance feels normal (not like something you have to chase).

✔️ Expand your nervous system’s ability to hold wealth because if it doesn’t feel safe, it won’t stay.

If You Aren’t Getting Results Yet, Know This:

• You can shift your mindset all day, but if the relationship dynamic with money hasn’t been repaired, the changes won’t stick.

• Your nervous system, patterns, and past experiences will pull you back into the “familiar rooms” of scarcity unless the dynamic itself changes.

• The cleanest self-check isn’t “Do I have a scarcity mindset?” but “What’s my emotional state when money flows in and out of my life?”

• Scarcity is a fear-based break in trust with the natural, abundant circulation of money.

  • It affects both the wealthy and those with little — it just wears different disguises.

  • The sting of scarcity is felt in every transaction:

    • Every bill, every payment, every purchase feels like a step closer to ruin.

    • Even fair, consensual exchanges feel like someone is “taking” from you.

Transforming this isn’t about forcing change. It’s about embodying your relationship with money differently.

Because money doesn’t just flow to you—it flows through you, at the level you’re capable of holding deep in your body.

Expanding Awareness Through Self-Inquiry

Money shadow work isn’t just about identifying limiting beliefs—it’s also about catching the subtle ways we get caught in fantasy.

Fantasy can be seductive (it’s a favorite self-soothing coping mechanism for many) because it promises relief, perfection, or validation — the “perfect” relationship, the “perfect” income, the “perfect” lifestyle. The danger comes when we make those ideals the benchmark for our worth or success. When money, opportunities, or gifts arrive, we unconsciously measure them against that imagined perfection — and joy gets deferred, if not blocked entirely.

The truth is, there’s no such thing as the perfect financial life. What matters is presence and capacity — the ability to receive, enjoy, and steward what flows in now, while still feeling inspired about what’s ahead.

Use these prompts to explore where fantasy might be limiting your money flow:

Self-Inquiry Prompts

1. Spot the Idealized Picture

   • What’s the “perfect picture” I secretly hold for how my finances should look?

   • How do I feel when life doesn’t match that picture—curious, or diminished?

2. Find the Emotional Hook

   • Which part of this ideal is about me proving something—to myself, to others, or to my past?

   • Is this vision inspiring my joy, or feeding my self-judgment?

3. Reality Check vs. Resistance

   • What’s already good in my financial life that I’ve been discounting?

   • If I completely accepted my financial reality today, what new possibilities might emerge?

4. Shift from Fantasy to Anticipation

   • How can I treat my financial goals as playful inspiration instead of rigid conditions for happiness?

   • What’s one small, aligned action I can take today that honors my values and joy, without waiting for the “perfect” circumstance?